The first build is my go-to for DPS. It focuses on Attack Speed and late game prowess. Tyrande provides enough control without talents and she isn't the greatest healer, even if invested. I generally prefer Shadowstalk over Starfall due to its ability to surprise the enemy team, you can stealth up and go around to catch them in a bad angle, therefore forcing them into a terrible position. Starfall is fine and can be good to pressure towers and keeps. Grab whatever you are more comfortable with.

This build focuses heavily on giving support. Shielding up allies, making your stun better and talenting up your healing ability a little bit. Not my preferred playstyle but an effective one, nonetheless.

The third build is a common, safe path and provides good damage, good control, it's what you would build if you had to pick your talents regardless of the situation. It is serviceable.

Tyrande is a very balanced hero and there are many different ways to build her. Remember that you have to adapt to the situation you are facing. With the exception of Searing Arrows and Calldown: MULE, there is no talent I would not pick, depending on the situation. One thing to keep in mind, however, is that mixing builds might not be the best idea. For instance, if you are going for the DPS build at first, it is unwise to pick Ranger at level 16, and if you are going for control and support throughout the whole game, you should not pick Nexus Frenzy as your final talent.